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First Date in Bangalore

A very short post, with a question and I need answers.

So I met this girl in college about a month ago. We recently met up, had a GREAT real date that led to some hot and heavy fun afterwards (I was fueled by too much alcohol!). That day morning, (it was an exam day) she called me over we made plans to hang out the evening. After the exam, we left college together. Needless to say, alcohol had its effect and the date wasn’t quite as “va-voom” like times before. I ended up feeling nervous and I wasn’t really myself.

After all of it, I dropped her backl. It was a great feeling to have her hugging me all the way, from college and back (gotta love the disc brakes of my pegasus). Each time I hit it, she comes a little closer. I held on to the throttle like a kid to a box of chocolate. Pegasus roared under us and pushed us through half empty Bangalore highways. It was dark all around on our way back, except for my headlights and a few streetlights. I could feel her breathe on my shoulder and as I went even faster, she shivered with the cold but still wanted me to go faster. She is really caring, loves speed, parties and traveling, just like me. She is nothing like my previous “friend-who-is-a-girl” who turned out to be a bitch (thats for another day, another entry).

So my dilemma: I want another chance! I think we connected because we were attracted to each other and I would love to get to know her better with at least one more date. She is a bit younger than me (3 years) and I think I’m too old for her ( I’m not worried about the age difference, but my character is not that of a teenager). Do you have any advice on how best to score one more chance? There are all of these more low-key date activities I would love to do this weekend.

Timely advice would be greatly appreciated!:)

-Ru

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JosNo Gravatar said,

January 9, 2008 @ 1:37 am

…Just ask her to meet up for something casual… like a day date…e.g. coffee

If you like her then age and everything won’t be an issue, as clichéd as it sounds…you know in your heart what is the right thing to do and how you truthfully feel.

But a casual meeting would determine this I suppose

Good Luck!
Jos (:

christykid7No Gravatar said,

January 9, 2008 @ 2:36 am

I agree — just ask her out for something casual. You do sound like a good match, Ru. Keep things rolling… literally and figuratively… and see where it leads!! I’m glad you found someone nicer than the box jellyfish… LOL.

christykid7No Gravatar said,

January 9, 2008 @ 2:37 am

P.S. Is that a pic of your niece? She is very beautiful !!!

RubenNo Gravatar said,

January 9, 2008 @ 3:55 pm

Kitty

On the background? yes, it is her.

Jos

You and kitty said the same thing. Its kinda hard on me, but after our chat yesterday, I have some strength to ask her out again.

R

JayNo Gravatar said,

January 10, 2008 @ 1:30 am

Call her up and go eat in a public area or maybe ask her what she wants to do!

OrunNo Gravatar said,

January 12, 2008 @ 6:40 am

Age difference is okay, girls mature faster than guys =)

Screw casual. get in touch with her, and take her somewhere special– a “secret place” very few know about, or a place with a great view is awesome =)
Once you’re on your date: don’t be drunk, be confident, but be you: i.e.- be yourself, but without the anxiety and stuff, look her in the eyes, it’s okay to stare!

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